03 May 2025

From Popes to Politicians - What is good leadership?

 

I voted yesterday at the local pre-polling booth and it seemed like half the electorate had the same idea.  While I waited, two men stood together in a small pop up cabana near the front of the line handing out flyers as the endless line of voters shuffled impatiently past them, looking away, suddenly fascinated by their phones or maybe a glance saying "no thanks mate" or muttering something else less kind. 

These two men were not your regular volunteers, they were the sitting Liberal member and his young gun Labour counterpart. I've known the Liberal member for many years, a good man,  and I've also met  with his younger Labor rival. They both looked utterly shattered, pale and pasty in the late afternoon rush, as though both had run a two month marathon of smiles, handshakes and smalltalk. When I reached them in the line, I had 30 seconds to  shake their hands, thank them for their work and wished them well.....before I went to cast my vote on their political fate. Thats democracy!

In this unique week between a Papal funeral and a federal election a lot of us are pondering the nature of good leadership and how to get it. Seems most of the world judged Pope Francis to have been a good leader, and today we will make a judgement about our political leaders who, for weeks have been magically appearing in strange places, pumping petrol or cuddling kids at childcare centres hoping that by doing so, public opinion may tip in their favour as the best leadership option for the electorate.  

But we are a cynical mob when it comes to leadership, especially political. We carry unbelievably high expectations of leaders and low confidence they will deliver. We critique them more than we praise them, as if we could do a better job fulfilling the one utilitarian task we assign them all - raise our standard of living right now!

People rightly want good leaders in all spheres of life, be they Popes, PM's, principals or pastors. But it is worth pausing on this election day to recognise that good leadership is neither comfortable nor easy, for both the leader and the led. If you want a high approval rating, getting a job as a Santa or selling ice cream may be a better option. And if you want to be led well, anticipate discomfort.

Good leadership is tough for the leader and the led and perhaps thats why the leadership genre is a bit of a bottomless pit. The classical idea of leadership was leader-centric. By that I mean the power dynamic was almost entirely tipped toward the hero, warlord, commander & chief  or CEO  who autocratically influences people to do what they probably don't want to do (there are a few world leaders who seem to like this style at the moment). 

But in more recent decades, leadership has become increasingly follower-centric where the power dynamic has shifted toward the follower. Barbara Kellerman says that the social contract in the 21st Century, between leader and led has changed from “have to” to “want to” be led - though she admits this is still dependent on context and “carrot and stick” leadership will always be a factor in many organisational settings.1 

The digital age, particularly  social media, has been emancipatory for the majority handing people power and knowledge they could never have imagined in previous generations. As a consequence Kellerman writes "there is less respect for authority across the board—in government and business, in the academy and in the professions, even in religion. Power and influence have continued to devolve from the top down—those at the top having less power and influence; those in the middle and at the bottom having more. For their part, followers, ordinary people, have an expanded sense of entitlement—demanding more and giving less."

I think what Kellerman is saying is that everyone today wants to live like they are in charge, only without the burden leadership. 

Perhaps the art of good leadership is in stewarding power in both a directive and collective way simultaneously. 
  • Peter Northouse in Leadership Theory and Practice, notes four characteristics generally present in leadership. Leadership is a process, involves influence, occurs in groups and involves common goals.3
  • Similarly, Tod Bolsinger in Canoeing the Mountains writes “Leadership is energizing a community of people toward their own transformation in order to accomplish a shared mission in the face of a changing world.”4
  • Joseph Rost, defined leadership as “an influence relationship among leaders and followers who intend real changes that reflect their mutual purposes.” In this Robert Banks et.al  notes the four essential leadership elements: 1. that the influence relationship is multidirectional, 2. the influence is non-coercive,  3. it involves meaningful change toward a purpose, and 4. followers are active participants.5
The thing I note about these conceptions is the role of both leader and led toward common or shared goals. Good leadership is something we want but also something we participate in, and cultivate by prioritising mutuality over individuality. And in the political context, the role of a local member is to synthesise the goals, aspirations and needs of thousands of individuals into a collective vision and action plan which they all participate in. I think for all our negativity, our politicians are making a genuine attempt to do something infinitely difficult at a societal level.

By the time you read this, the election will likely be decided, but spare a thought for all those local members and candidates  - for every happy winner  there are many more feeling deflated. These men and women all show great courage I think, to put themselves in a highly vulnerable position where their local community can explicitly reject them. They should all be congratulated and encouraged no matter the side of politics. 

We all want good leaders but I wonder, do you have a shortlist of things you'd look for? As I ponder both new popes and parliamentarians, I can think of 9 qualities I'd like to experience as a follower (in no particular order):
  1. Vision - a compelling idea of where they want to take people.
  2. Credibility - the technical skills and life experiences that engender confidence in followers.
  3. Courage - to lead with conviction in the face of inevitable opposition.
  4. Consistency - an integrity between their personal and public life.
  5. Compassion- to truly see people and work for their flourishing regardless of status.
  6. Wisdom - navigating complexity and competing priorities with acumen.
  7. Maturity- to emotionally manage themselves and their relationships well.
  8. Values - an epistemological foundation for the wisdom that orients and guides their life and leadership. 
  9. Humility - to selflessly serve and steward power always for the common good.
Much more could be said, but thinking about Pope Francis' exemplary life helped me focus in on a few key things.  And while I sure don't want the next pope to lead the country, I do hope all our incumbent leaders might express, just as imperfectly as even Francis, the same qualities of good leadership. 
I reckon only Jesus expressed these perfectly, but every leader has unavoidable choices around the kind of person  and therefor leader, they want to be becoming. As do we all because in the end, we all share in the vocation of leadership, even if only of ourselves and those close to us. 

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1&2 Kellerman, Barbara. The End of Leadership. 1st ed. New York: Harper Business, 2012.

3 Northouse, Peter G. Leadership: Theory and Practice. Ninth Edition. Los Angeles: SAGE Publishing, 2022.

4 Bolsinger, Tod E. Canoeing the Mountains: Christian Leadership in Uncharted Territory. Expanded Edition. Downers Grove: InterVarsity Press, 2018.

5 Ledbetter, Bernice M., Robert Banks, and David C. Greenhalgh. Reviewing Leadership: A Christian Evaluation of Current Approaches. Second edition. Engaging culture. Grand Rapids, Mich.: Baker Academic, 2016.

20 April 2025

Maybe Church?


I write these words as the sun dawns on Good Friday morning 2025. For as long as I can remember this day, and Easter Sunday has been a profound and special moment in the annual rhythm of Christian life for me. It is a time to gather with community, to reflect on the death and resurrection of Jesus and how our lives together are caught up in the great gospel invitation of redemption and resurrection through Christ. It's also been a day of adrenalin for me, and needing to be on point as hundreds gather to participate in something inspiring, creative and beautiful.

But this Good Friday and Easter Sunday I'm at a bit of a lose end. On purpose that is,  giving my church and old staff team vital time to find their feet apart from its old Senior Pastor, and if I am honest, myself time to find my own feet apart from the role. I finished my role at the start of the year and for most of the year I'm choosing a kind of social obscurity, stepping away from the platforms I've lived on, handing back the keys, and the microphones. It's weird, but I think wise.

Actually, I'm not missing much at all about my old role 3 months down the track. What I feel the most acutely is the intentional dislocation from community and community gathered in moments like Easter. I will visit a mate's church today and some friendly faces will be there, but they aren't my community so it always feels a bit like rocking up to a birthday party of your friend's close group of friends.  

Absence from my church community will last for much of the year while a new leader is appointed, and in the meantime I have an opportunity to experience first hand what dislocation feels like. Over the years I've witnessed so many people disconnect from church communities, deconstruct and sometimes destruct their faith. Covid catalysed much soul searching for people and for many, the search ended in ending their commitments to gathering with a specific community in a specific rhythm. 

And there were lots of reasons. In the thick of those Covid years I remember sitting down to write a list of all the reasons I'd been given by people for why our church was no longer necessary and in about 30 minutes I'd rattled off 50 reasons that my bruised heart has squirrelled away over the years. Some really valid of course, and some just sad.

I still think a lot about those who deconstructed or just reprioritised life away from the rhythm and discipline of gathering. Sometimes I blame myself, but mostly I just feel sadness, and sometimes a little anger if they had young children who then missed out on the profoundly formative gift of faith development in community.

In a recent NCLS aritcle exploring findings from their annual Australian Community Survey and research from the Scanlon Foundation found that people who worship together have
• Higher social cohesion across all domains
• Higher levels of civic engagement,
• Higher levels of subjective wellbeing.

People think more collectively, they behave more selflessly and the feel more positive about life. Im not surprised about these findings because they are precisely what I've witnessed throughout my life in faith community.

Its easy to miss the forest of goodness for the few trees of challenge in the rhythm of Sunday church. Yes people can be irritating, pastors can disappoint, relationships strained, Sundays may not do it for you, and serving can be a drag sometimes. Yes the preacher may be not be all that engaging and the band off key. Yes the coffee might be weak and the parking lot full. Yes a sleep in sounds brilliant and a room full of people sounds stressful. 

Yes church might be all that. But its much more than that, and indeed all those niggles are not problems to resist but parts of the curriculum for our formation and maturation. Sure things can to some extent be done better, but the point of being church is being a community of people whose entwined lives and loves are being progressively reoriented away from self toward the love of God, one another and world. And in that place, people experience a different kind of flourishing and goodness in life that your sporting team or smashed avo at the cafe or sleep in can only try and mimic.

Some of the latest research from McCrindle is indicating a quiet return to Christianity by people who had walked away in recent years (see also here). Nearly 785,000 Australians who identified as having no religion in the 2016 Census listed Christianity in 2021. The statistical decline in Christianity in the past few decades is often presented as evidence for a societal shift away from faith toward secularity. But perhaps all it really reveals is that cultural Christianity is finally dead in Australia and people only tick the Christian box because they have a genuine conviction to identify as Christian.

Over 55's, according to McCrindle, are the largest age bracket returning to churches as are millennials and younger who are becoming increasingly disillusioned with post-modern relativism, the limitations of science and technology, and dwindling hope of economic prosperity in their generation. McCrindle notes that the majority of young people want to have spiritual conversations as they search for a sense of identity, meaning and purpose beyond these. 

Anecdotally I'm constantly hearing pastors say that new people keep showing up on Sunday and many are returning after a hiatus of several years of non attending any church.  I suspect the social cohesion of community, the engagement of purpose beyond self, and the reorientation of life around a commitment to spiritual formation and worship - is something the church uniquely offers and with it a life of renewed significance, purpose and  flourishing. 

Perhaps going it alone wears off.  It's already worn off for me and Ive only been absent for 12 weeks! Absence makes my heart grow fonder.

Hey if you've read this far in my Easter ramble, maybe this weekend is a good time to take a chance on a local evangelical church near you? Maybe it's one you left long ago, or its one you've driven by a hundred times? I guarantee it wont tick all your boxes, and it will feel awkward. 
But it might also be the start of something beautiful.


23 March 2025

Update - 2025


Hello! I've neglected writing for fun (here) over the past few years, mostly because my attention has been consumed largely by the constant process of writing for preaching, and by the research and writing connected to the Doctorate that I've been labouring in since 2022. These two commitments have certainly consumed my imagination and my energy for extra-curricular composition.... till now!

In the first months of 2025 I concluded my role as the Senior Pastor and primary preacher at Georges River Life Church and, I also finished the first full draft of my thesis and sent it off to my supervisors. So within the space of a month, the two largest writing commitments have abruptly ceased, and I am coming to terms with a wide open diary in which to look back and think forward.

For me, writing is my best avenue for thinking well and paying attention to what is happening in and around me. Writing or journaling is a spiritual practice to order and articulate often incomplete and confused thoughts and feelings. To quote American author and poet Jim Ferris, he said "I dont know what I think till I read what I have to say." I think that's me too. 

If you want to reach out, best to get me on my gmail email account: revscomo@gmail.com

Warmly
Scott

Old friends returning on my farewell Sunday...

Pressing send on my thesis (draft) ....


Preparing for a very long walk in June...